Have any of you actually shoved a semi-auto into your stomach hard enough to keep it from firing? I just did it with a 1911 and a Beretta 92. They both failed to fire but the pressure needed made either gun a weapon in my belly without the need to fire. I wouldn't want either shoved into my belly 'cause it really hurt and I, for one, would back off. I recommend double action revolver to new shooters, both sexes, because they are simple to use, easy to load and unload and easily seen to be loaded. A miss-fire is easily followed by a second pull of the trigger for the next loaded chamber. Are the light snubbies easy to control? No but not beyond the capability of the average woman. Are the light snubbies target gins? NO, they weren't meant to be and never will be. We are talking about close range (under 25 feet)shots here and you are shooting at a somewhat larger target than a bulls eye at 25 yards. Any good snubbie will keep all its shots inside a B27 target at that range.
I do agree that proper training is a must. Those of you who work at a shop that rents guns, do you offer basic training to your female customers? That could and would help in your sales, I'm sure. I usually recommend a local range which has such training. Said range also has classes for women only, no men. Start them out with some light loads, something which doesn't beat the hell out of their hands and don't let the husband/boyfriend/lover, within the same range area. You all might be surprised what the women are capable of doing.
Just my thoughts, Pecos
Quit edit: any gun can be jammed by the crap found in the average pocket but a revolver is less likely to be affected than a semi-auto which has a stove pipe because the empty case had no place to go.