I guess I'm just talking to myself in this thread. 
Speaking only for myself, of course, I just can't wrap my head around all of this being staged. That's the story here, right? That Sandy Hook never happened? If this were true, what do you do with 20 kids - send 'em all to live with Grandma? I think that what we have here is testimony to the notion that eyewitness accounts of a traumatic event are almost always inaccurate to some degree. It's like watching a swarm of bees and trying to describe the path of each individual insect relative to the others. Fear, confusion, uncertainty, crying, screaming, yelling, kids running around, terror, denial, gunfire, and panic - all experienced by people untrained to deal with an unfolding crisis - are not things that lend themselves to an accurate and complete observation of events.
As a parent, I cried for the kids... and I cried for the families. And I pray that something like this never happens again. To be completely honest, however, I've moved on. I'm now focused on the struggle ahead, the fight to preserve our rights and our freedoms, the effort to show the injustice of demonizing guns and gun owners. The struggle against evil never ends.
We pray for healing, strength, courage, and guidance - and then we move on.