M'lette :
What makes sense …
A shot of distrust can add balance. To this, caution is fine but when one takes it to a constant, slathering distrust of ________ (fill in the blank with appropriate government agency, family, farm animal, etc.) it takes away from the present. This creates an unhealthy mental state.
As a side discussion to this thread … I find it interesting if not somewhat comical that there is a fair amount of gun owners that worry about Jan Reno coming through their door and hearing the “snap” of a rubber glove going on her heavy right hand. Can it happen? Sure. Anything can happen but really are the odds that it will? Tell you what, I will send JohnJ a dozen roses and a box of chocolates if and when Jan gives me an open cavity search.
Again, worrying about the future is a waste of time. Sure, be prepared but don’t go off the deep end because the balance you seek will be lost. Enjoy the moment. Remember, you are living someone's dream.
What doesn’t make any sense is that you are a grandmother. God Lord girl …. That new picture of you makes you look like you are under thirty!