Rastus... any of the locked breech AR9s, like the CMMG Guard with a radially unlocking bolt, the SiG MPX with the short piston or any DI that unlocks the bolt shoots considerably softer than the blow back...naturally the catch is that they are much more expensive... most of the blow back 9mm use a bolt and buffer combination of about 21oz... gamers like myself limit the overall travel so that the bolt just clears the bolt hold open by 1/4" or so to limit the force exerted under recoil, and try to tune the buffer/spring with the ammunition... I shoot a 135 Bayou coated bullet with WSF that makes 130 power factor out of my G34, and about 146 out of the 16" carbine.. additionally, I use a hydraulic buffer... I found that the Enidine buffer greatly improves hit quality, more than reducing the dot movement
if I were to recommend an inexpensive blow back AR9, I'd look at Palmetto State Armory's forged lower, Glock format (as the cartridges strip off the magazine directly into the chamber)... you may want to fool with a 5oz or so buffer when you decide on what ammunition... their Gen4 bolt has a much preferable AR style extractor
for a non AR, about the only one I've shot is the CZ and did not like the ergonomics as it was "different" from all the AR's I shoot... I put a couple of rounds through a Beretta Storm, and early Marlin Camp rifle, but have not shot one of the new Ruger PC yet... the Ruger is I believe, a few bucks cheaper than the AR9s, but the AR platform is what I know something about, and over the years have acquired some specialty tools, triggers, comps, hand guards for them
after the Steel Challenge match, I pirated the Vortex Venom from the .22lr and it now is on the AR9, and a new Venom and YHM riser is on order