I know that my life in funeral service influences my point of view, but through training and practice I learned the importance of ceremony and memorial. I'm confident that almost everyone lurking here is aware of the passing of Jim Scoutten. We all also know of the differences of opinion between Michael Bane and the Scoutten team, but we need to also recognize what Jim did for our sport and in working to protect our freedoms.
I have been very disappointed in the Outdoor Channel and the Scoutten production team. First it was days, then it was weeks, and so far I have not seen any recognition of Jim's passing on the station, the show or the website. In searching I did find an obituary that was more of a press release, and a death notice that his body was handled by Neptune Society.
WARNING, I am climbing up on my soapbox:
There are some very basic stages of grief, and society has found a helpful process to work through these in a healthy manor. Not all groups and families do them the same, but when you step back you will see a commonality. As we each consider our demise and state our requests, we need to remember that the funeral/memorial process is for the living. It is a time and series of events that allow survivors to transition from a life with you present to a changed life with your memory.
To each of us; famous, famous in our own mind, or basement dweller, help your family by sharing your story. Share you favorite life events and stories, write down important and trivial episodes in your life, share your favorite memorial services and events you have attended, make sure it is known what were your favorite Scriptures writings, hymns or songs, etc. for a time of remembrance, and leave room for your family to plan and carry out the event THEY need to honor you and your life well lived.
Many think that my SASS handle, Coffin Filler Mike, is about old west gun fights, but it is a play on words from my former life. A career that was a passion that I have recognized more after moving on than I was aware of when practicing.