Again, I hate to sound like a broken record, but lose the .380. The only excuse to own one is the size. Given that there are 9mms and even .45s the same size, there is zero excuse to own one. Yes recoil in a 9mm is going to be stronger and you have to train to deal with it for a double tap. But the difference between .380 and 9mm in a pocket pistol is minimal. Neither are fun to shoot at the range, but you just have HTFU and deal with it. Its like going to the dentist. Once you've put a couple of hundred rounds through it you will be familar with the gun. In an actual SD scenario, recoil won't even be felt and is a non-issue as long as you can control muzzle flip. I learned yesterday (see my almost mugged in Charleston thread), the hard way, that SD situations happen quick and close. Forget my agonizing over AK vs AR. I am now considering trading in my 9mm Glocks on .45s. I dealt with two big, very amped up guys at ten feet. No way in hell would I think .380 was enough gun to take both of them in those conditions. You want big, simple, accurate enough, and goes bang every time, wthout having to worry about cocking or safeties or anything else that requiers fine motor skills. Point, click, and boom, large hole results. Choose your brand,pistol or revolver, just don't mess around because the BGs sure won't.
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